Dating, Attraction and Connection Coach
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'Become more attractive by becoming your true self'


Dating can be challenging for all sorts of reasons, but I'm here to help. I'm a London based dating, attraction and connection coach with over a decade of experience helping men from all over the world become more attractive versions of themselves. 


My coaching helps with confidence, self-worth, approaching, conversation skills, connection building, voice, body language and online dating. I guide my clients to do the work, providing support, encouragement and fun along the way.

The Approach

As a female dating coach with a degree in psychology and communication, my approach has always been a little different. Many dating coaches focus on getting quick fix 'results' - an approach that often leads men to develop fake personas and learned routines to 'pick up' women. Instead, I help my clients understand the dynamics of communication and guide them through self-development necessary for building genuine connections with others.


My coaching combines awareness of the mind, body and human behaviour from training in psychology, life coaching, vipassana meditation, yoga, sensory deprivation, and embodiment coaching. Through deep study and ongoing practice, I  work to understand and eliminate the root causes of mental and emotional blocks that prevent us from being our natural, confident, attractive selves. 


Working on the outside and inside simultaneously, I help my clients change their mindset through their behaviour and their behaviour through their mindset to connect more with their true selves and others. This is not a quick fix to help you 'act' more confident by learning lines and routines. It's the tools to strip away the fears and layers of false self holding you back, so you can actually become that confident, naturally attractive version of you.


The Conversation

You've heard it from me, but good conversation should never be one way. Over to my clients...

" Minnie brings a delightful combination of a positive attitude, real life experience and a practical application of her knowledge to her development sessions. It is this unique mix that meant I came away from her sessions motivated, with a clear sense of positivity and direction. I would highly recommend her sessions "

- Matthew, 42, UK -

" When I first met Minnie, I was taken aback by how deep her understanding of attraction went. Like a surgeon, she was able to break down advice I'd been given elsewhere into fundamental principles. I now understand WHY my successes were successes and WHY my failures were failures. I now have the tools to progress and move forward on my own. If I were to recommend any one person to help a guy out with dating, it would be Minnie "


- Ciaran, 26, Ireland -


"Minnie is absolutely amazing at what she does. Working with her has been an experience that changed the very fabric of my understanding of human connection.

I highly recommend her to anyone wishing to better themselves in personal life or dating"

- Ranjith, 30, Canada - 

"Simply put, she's amazing. You'll learn a lot from her as I did"


Al , 27, New Zealand -

Find Out More

Find out more about my one on one coaching sessions or join my mailing list to hear about upcoming events, workshops and dating tips. 

Private Coaching

Central London

Private Coaching

via Skype

CORONAVIRUS UPDATE: All coaching is now via skype only. I'm in the process of writing all my teaching into a book and online tutorials. If you'd like to be notified of publication dates, please join my mailing list or subscribe to my YouTube channel. If you have any questions, I'd love to hear from you. 


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