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About Minnie Lane

Minnie Lane was born near London on international men’s day. As one of the first female dating coaches for men in a male dominated industry, Minnie has carved a unique and successful 17 year career as a personal development coach, helping men develop in maturity and attractiveness. Named a top global dating expert of 2023, she is considered a leading voice in the industry.

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In 2019, Minnie featured as lead contributor and spokeswoman for the critically acclaimed documentary ‘The Pickup Game’. Released during the #metoo era, Minnie spoke to large audiences at international film festivals and became a catalyst for change to help clean up the toxic, underground pickup artist industry.

 

Minnie’s work has attracted attention across international tv, press, podcasts and radio including BBC, Channel 4, Discovery, CTV, The Evening Standard, Stylist, Glamour, The Marilyn Denis Show, The Social and 90 day Fiancé. When she’s not busy teaching men personal development, Minnie enjoys holidays in pitch black solitary confinement to explore higher levels of consciousness, and taking long road trips with her partner and her Mexican street dog, Taco Mágico.

About Minnie Lane

Minnie Lane, MSc, is a leading UK dating coach and relationship expert, named one of the world's top ten men's dating coaches in 2023. With over 18 years' experience as a personal development coach, she helps men develop emotional maturity, confidence, communication skills and the capacity for healthy, lasting relationships.

 

Born in London on International Men's Day, Minnie went on to become one of the first female dating coaches working with men in a male-dominated industry. Minnie has carved a unique and successful career helping men grow more attractive through integrity, self-awareness and maturity, avoiding the performance or manipulation tactics often taught in the industry.

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In 2019, Minnie featured as lead contributor and spokeswoman for the critically acclaimed documentary ‘The Pickup Game’. Released during the #metoo era, Minnie spoke to large audiences at international film festivals and became a catalyst for change to help clean up the toxic, underground pickup artist industry.

 

Minnie’s expertise has been featured across international television, press, podcasts and radio, including BBC London, Channel 4, ITV, Discovery, CTV, The Sunday Times, The Economist, The Evening Standard, Stylist, Glamour, The Marilyn Denis Show, The Social and 90 day Fiancé.

 

When she’s not working with clients, Minnie enjoys holidays in pitch black solitary confinement to explore the mind-body connection, and road trips with her Mexican street dog, Taco Mágico.

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Press and Media Coverage

CTV The Social

Dating coach Minnie Lane appears as a guest on CTV The Social discussing suthentic connection

Dating coach, Minnie Lane, guests on CTV The Social, discussing the importance of being your true self in order to build authentic connections with others.

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The Marilyn Denis Show

Dating coach, Minnie Lane, gives simple first date tips for blind date couples on the Marylin Denis Show.

Dating coach, Minnie Lane, appears as a guest on The Marilyn Denis Show giving dating advice to blind date couples

BBC Radio London

Dating and relationship coach, Minnie Lane, in interview with Radio London on the emerging self-development trend of dark retreats.  With ten minute guided meditation.

'The Pickup Game' (2019) Documentary 

Critically acclaimed documentary exposing the dark side of the pick up artist industry, narrated by dating coach, Minnie Lane.

Dating and relationship expert Minnie Lane gives relationship advice on 90 Day Fiancé

90 Day Fiancé

Dating and relationship expert, Minnie Lane, helps a young couple work through intimacy and romance issues in their long-distance relationship.

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The Evening Standard

Interview with Dating coach Minnie Lane in The Evening Standard newspaper

Meet the Men Paying Thousands for Dating Coaching in London

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Dating Coach Minnie Lane features in The Evening Standard

The Economist

Dating coach Minnie Lane featured in The Economist

What The Ecomonist Discovered at Dating Bootcamp

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GQ Magazine

Interview with dating coach Minnie Lane in GQ magazine

How to Stay Together When You're Apart: a Comprehensive Guide to Long-Distance Relationships

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The Unexpected Yet Predictable Rise of the "Workout Date"

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Interview with dating and relationship expert, Minnie Lane, in BN1 magazine

BN1 Magazine

Inside "The Pickup Game": Our Interview with Former Industry Coach, Minnie Lane

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Stylist Magazine

Feature article in Stylist Magazine on dark retreats with dating and connection coach, Minnie Lane

Do you need a "Dark Retreat?" How Darkness and Solitude can Enhance Wellbeing

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Dating and relationship coach Minnie Lane discusses her dark retreat expereinces

Glamour Magazine

Dating coach Minnie Lane interviewed on dark retreats by Glamour magazine

Dark Retreats are Trending: So what are they?

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9Honey 

Nine Honey interview with dating coach Minnie Lane

Pickup Artistry: The Insidious Trend Putting Women in Danger

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The Dark Heart of the Dating Industry

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Interview wth dating and relationship expert Minnie Lane

Reader's Digest

Sheerluxe Magazine

Sheerluxe magazine featuring dating and relationship expert Minnie Lane

Tips for a Better Sex Life

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Training and Experience

MSc Applied Positive Psychology and Coaching Psychology

Research: The Psychological Wellbeing Impact of Dating App Usage

University of East London 

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BA Hons Psychology and Communication

University of Leeds, UK 

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PG Dip Applied Screenwriting (incl. The Hero's Journey)

Central Film School, London 

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Certificate in Life Coaching

MOE Foundation 

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Coaching for Autism (CPD short course)

Association for Coaching â€‹

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10 Day Sensory Deprivation Darkness Retreat

London (2020)

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7 Day Sensory Deprivation Darkness Retreat

Mahadevi Ashram, Guatemala (2017)

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8 Day Vipassana Silent Meditation Satipatthana Sutta

Dhama Padhana, UK (2022)

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10 Day Vipassana Silent Meditation

Dhamma Pushkar, India (2017)

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10 Day Vipassana Silent Meditation

Dhamma Java, Indonesia (2014)

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10 Day Vipassana Silent Meditation

Dhamma Magga, Myanmar (2013)

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200 YTT Ashtanga Yoga, Pranayama and Meditation

Kranti Yoga, India (2016)

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Introduction to Psychoanalysis

Institute of Psychoanalysis, London (2014)

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Psychoanalysis Foundation Course Lectures

Institute of Psychoanalysis, London (2016)

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Psychoanalysis Summer School

Institute of Psychoanalysis, London (2015, 2016 and 2017)​
 

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